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Becky Harmon • April 2, 2020

A House is not just a House!! It's a Living, Breathing Thing!! It has a soul!

BoHo Style in a historic home can be the perfect demographic for an older neighborhood.


A House is not just a House… It’s a Living, Breathing Thing! It has a Soul.
One topic not mentioned often enough in the ever-changing world of home staging… I’ll call it the x-Factor. It’s emotion. How can we engage the emotional part of the decision-making process?

The left brain, the analytical side, chooses the square footage, the number of BRs and baths, the schools, the neighborhood. The left brain gets them there. But the right brain, the emotional side, makes the decision to buy.... and maybe causes them to spend more than they intended.
We are not just talking about the staging touches, although they are important also. We ARE talking about making your property irresistible by by creating an invisible, emotional connection to the the seller, the neighborhood and even the neighbors. How do we do that?
When my son and daughter-in-law were house-hunting in the downtown Jacksonville historic area, they ended up with 2 equally qualified house options. Both were the right size, the right school district, same features and fenced backyard.
But one house had a distinctive edge… a “Why We Love This House” home-made brochure. The cover was a black and white photo of the homeowners strolling the baby to the beautiful nearby Riverside Park. There were also pictures of the children on the piano. There was an immediate connection with the owners. The flowers on the porch were over-the-top gorgeous.

The list inside the brochure included right-brain things like,
1. If you are upstairs and all the doors are open, you feel like you are living in a treehouse. ( The house is surrounded by live oaks. )
2. The 100 year-old house was owned by one family for most of the 20th century and the builder/owner was a master carpenter. (My son started to envision decades of Christmas celebrations and Thanksgiving dinners in the living room and dining room .)
3. There are several secret passageways behind the closets. (The kids were thrilled.)
4. Every 4th of July, the neighbors all walk down to the river to watch the fireworks together. (They are almost looking forward to meeting the neighbors.)
Etc. Etc. You get the idea.
We have incorporated this concept in our general recommendations to our staging clients. Only the homeowner can create this list. It’s personal.
Now, as you know, in staging circles, we always recommend depersonalizing the house. We are not changing that advice.
But we do like to see a few pictures of the homeowners (GASP), especially if they are enjoying the amenities of the neighborhood. We ask them to share their favorite unique features of the house and the location on their 'Why we love this house" list.

In our study of the left-brain vs. right brain selling, the analytical side needs to be engaged first. So, the realtor needs to do a thorough job of describing the property. I think they should to create a little intrigue, if possible. Then, the stagers create a story to engage the right brain in the staging process.

There is a psychology to the color strategy, furniture placement and the lifestyle staging touches.
1. The hammock in the back yard with a tray and iced tea pitcher with glasses
2. The telescope or binoculars in the living room overlooking the intracoastal waterway, where boats can be seen
3. Rolled up beach towels in a cabana bath by the pool
4. Coastal Living magazine in a tray by the sofa
5. Navigational boating charts rolled up in a basket with old boat paddles for a yachting neighborhood
6. A glass vase with wine corks to decorate a bar area, along with some glasses and a bottle of wine in a tray

Of course, the house needs to be clean and pristine. The "Why We Love This House" brochure can be customized and placed with the realtor's cards and info. All of this together engages the right brain and makes the house unforgettable.

One house that our team staged in a gorgeous, gated neighborhood sold in 6 hours for a full-price, cash offer. We were concerned about it because, for the $800,000 price tag, the formal living room was small. But, the beautiful pool, summer kitchen and fire pit area were enhanced with outdoor dishes, candles, towels, lanterns and floating lights in the pool. I love a happy ending.

It reminds me of the guy my sister dated in law school. She was looking for husband material. She brought a tall, dark and handsome cowboy... hat and all to one of our parties. He was NOT exactly husband material but with a corvette and a voice like Sam Elliott, she forgot her senses and bought that house, so to speak. The right brain wins again!!


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